This is what I read from Jamie's blog. She' s so right. If only I can share with her my thoughts personally.
I have been going thru another roller coaster ride. One day, I will sit down with her over lunch.

From Jamie:
No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.
Disappointments are like road humps, they slow us down a bit but we will enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on!
When we feel down because we didn't get what we want, just sit tight and be happy, because God is thinking of something better to offer us. InsyaAllah...
When we truly care for someone, don't look for faults and mistakes. Fight the mistakes, accept the faults and overlook the excuses, and
When something happens to us, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to life's events, to teach us how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.
We can't make someone love us, all we can do is to be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realise our worth. The measure of love is when we love without measure. I think in life, there are very rare chances that we'll meet the person we love and loves us back in return. So, once we have it don't ever let go. The chance might never come our way again.
Perhaps, it's better to lose our pride to the one we love, than to lose the one we love because of pride. Most often than not, we spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be "perfecting" the love we give.